No Electroshock Therapy Please

doorbellshockIn 1985, Steven King unleashed upon the world Cat’s Eye.  Comprised of 3 short stories the first “Quitter’s Inc.” paints a picture of a company that in order to get you to stop smoking when you fall off the wagon punishes your family members with electroshock therapy (and then worse consequences).  Crazy.  If you really want to watch the short clip (which is more comical than disturbing) click here.

Why do I share that?  Well, a lot of people tend to think that this is how behavior modification works.  I need to be a good little boy or girl with my money, and if I don’t then I need to be punished.  How else will I learn?  That doesn’t work.  Instead, we need to focus on positive motivation.  Let’s explore some positive steps we can take to motivate us to reach our goals.

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4 Ways Debt Consolidation Is Robbing You Of Debt Freedom

Debt Consolidation, Circa 1948

Real financial counselors don’t do this trash! They can also likely actually spell “counselor”.

Debt consolidation is a very common thing in our culture.  Banks offer it, late night TV offers it, and “reputable” companies offer it.  However, unbeknownst to most consumers, debt consolidation has been one of the top industries investigated by the FTC for fraud.  It’s a huge area of confusion for most consumers as they think it’s a simple process of merging all their debts into one easy payment.  Here are 4 ways debt consolidation is robbing you of debt freedom:

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Budget Is Not A 4 Letter Word

Mention the word budget around someone (especially free spirits) and you may hear some colorful language.  True as that is that’s actually not the kind of 4 letter word I’m talking about.  I’m talking about the word “diet”.  Actually, both “budget” and “diet” are words that are positive but have garnered a negative cultural connotation.  Diet’s primary definition simply means “the kinds of food that a person eats” and budget simply means a proactive plan for how your income and expenses are going to flow.  However, most people think of a budget as something restrictive that means they can’t have fun, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

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Payments Are Not Good For You


The messages are all around us.  “Buy Now, Pay Later!”, “90 Days Same As Cash!”, “You’re always going to have a car payment!”, and others.  That last one was your broke family member in case you didn’t notice (though I’m sure you’ve heard it).  The little man just can’t get ahead!

We are living in a culture that inundates us with the need for stuff and the belief that if we actually want to get the stuff we really do need then the best way to do so is with “easy” payments.  Heck, you can even rent a LAMP for only $6.99/week or $30/mth!  Just go buy the stupid thing!

Pay the Piper

Ultimately, you’re going to have pay for all that stuff, and it isn’t going to be pretty.  A lot of us have gotten sucked into this payment mentality and have, even for the daily consumables that you could easily pay for, simply put it on credit to make those oh so “easy” payments.  One thing I see often is that the average person is not paying full attention to their finances with a solid plan and only thinks in chunks about their finances.

I make how much?  Chunk
My house payment is what? Chunk
My car payment is what? Chunk
My kids’ soccer program is how much? Chunk
It’s going to cost how much to fly there?  Oh, yeah, I can manage that!

Eventually everything falls apart because they aren’t paying attention to where the majority of their spending goes: The little things.  They don’t think about that purchase at Fivebucks they make every day which adds up to $150/mth, etc.  The point here is payments deceive you into thinking you are paying attention and staying on top of your finances when you really aren’t.

Stop Feeding the Machine

Have you ever wondered why payments are offered?  You may think that it’s to make something affordable for someone who can’t afford to pay for it all up front.  If you think this, legitimate as it may seem, it proves you’ve bought into the lie of the payment mentality.

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How I Paid $37 For My iPhone 5s (Without Selling Out My Friends)

Step right up! Learn the secrets… the mysteries…. the mystique of…. smart money management? But seriously, I’m not here to hype you up or tell you how if you share this on Facebook and get 5,000 likes that you will win a free iPhone. This is my true story of how with a little bit of knowledge, planning, and cunning I paid $37 for my iPhone 5s. Yes, you read that right, do not adjust your internet browser. $37. Here, in short order, are 7 steps you can follow to see similar results.

Results may vary because it’s up to you!


1. Become A Mini-Techie… Temporarily

First things first, get educated! Now listen, I’m not saying to go buy a pocket protector, move into your mom’s basement, and learn about the special screwdrivers used to get an iPhone open. Geek certification not required.

Apple has become sadly very predictable because, well the press like it and so do customers. Every year since the inception of the iPhone Apple has released a new model. Until 2011, it was always in the summer (mostly June), and since then it’s always been in the fall (mostly September).

Simple logic dictates that in Late July or early August you better start paying attention. The best way to do that is to tune into Gizmodo. There are a lot of rumors that float around about the next thing concerning the iPhone and they do the best job of discerning the fallacious from the fo’ real and reporting on each with level-headed perspective and insight.

As the date of release approaches pay attention to the signs like leaked photos and inventory issues for current models. When you are getting about a month out or less it’s time to start Step 2 (if applicable).

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Welcome To My New… Everything!


Welcome to my brand new website and the home for my blog!  This site is the result of over two months of my blood, sweat, and tears and provides a place where I can engage with you, my readers, and help you in a way I may not have been able to otherwise.  My name is Jeremy (not Mat I promise) and hopefully the image above gives you some inkling of my sense of humor.  If not, keep reading!

Right now, my goal is to blog once a week and ramp up from here.  As you read through my posts and the sometimes odd world that is my random mind my goal is to provide you with tools, resources, and inspiration you can use to further your financial journey and reach your goals.

To engage with this site, there’s several things you can do…

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